3 Ways to Ask Your Sugar Daddy for the Things You Want
If you’re dating a sugar daddy, then you probably already know that it’s a lot like "normal" dating but with a few different perks and benefits (for both you and him). You’re a beautiful woman, and he’s a successful man. That means that in exchange for spending time with you, he gets to lavish you with gifts and/or an allowance. But how do you talk about the things you want with your sugar daddy without sounding desperate or greedy?
Remember the Importance of Timing
As you start your relationship, you should go ahead and get important issues out of the way, like time commitments, exclusivity (whether either of you can or should date other people), money, etc. That doesn’t mean that you can never discuss these things again, but it does mean that you’ll both be on the same page from the very beginning.
Beyond talking things out at the beginning, you should also realize that there are appropriate and inappropriate times to ask for more allowance, gifts, etc. If he’s had a rough day at work and he just wants to unwind, you probably shouldn’t pester him about paying your rent. Instead, make him the center of attention and help him relax. Once he’s feeling good, then you can talk to him about what you want and need.
Think About Your Tone
When you do bring up a request for more allowance, a particular gift, or anything else, think about how you bring it up. If you’re rude, you’re not only less likely to get what you want, but your sugar daddy is actually very likely to cut you off entirely. On the other hand, if you’re polite and sweet, he’s probably going to be more receptive to your request.
Finally, if you’re vague about your requests, you’re not going to get what you want. He’s going to assume that you don’t need as much cash as you would like, or he’ll assume that you don’t actually need the money or gift you’re asking for. Instead, be specific about exactly what you want and why. If you need rent money or money for school, tell him. If you want to look extra gorgeous this weekend and you need a trip to the salon, tell him that too. The more specific you are, the better.
And, of course, always be appreciative. Never take your gifts and allowance for granted, and you’ll be the best sugar baby that a sugar daddy could ask for.