What to Expect in a Perfect Sugar Daddy Arrangement
Every sugar daddy or sugar baby, whether from Brisbane or Perth or any other part of Australia or elsewhere, aims for a perfect sugar daddy arrangement. It comes naturally with the activity, given the highly personal and subjective dynamics of a sugar arrangement.
However the word "perfect" here can only go as far as serving as an aspiration or an aim. The closest we can actually come to it is to make the most of the sugar arrangement, if it will ever be concluded. Of course, knowing that a sugar arrangement is a deal between a sugar daddy and a sugar baby with different needs, any effort to achieve a most suitable arrangement will have to consider what each one is willing to bring honestly into the arrangement.
There are a few elements that are critical in bringing out the best in a sugar arrangement:
The matching of the objectives of the parties. Basically, a seeking arrangement Australia prospers because the needs of a sugar daddy and those of a sugar baby find a suitable equation. These needs are or must be essentially identifiable from the start: financial support for the sugar baby and intimacy and companionship for the sugar daddy.
This matching is crucial for sugar success. If the parties can be candid and truthful enough to lay down on the table the exact description of their needs, much of the effort towards near perfection is substantially completed. The sugar baby has to spell out what financial support means to her and seek an agreement for an amount and kind that the sugar daddy is willing to and can provide as arranged.
The sugar daddy has to define what intimacy and companionship entail and seek an agreement that these personal services will and can be provided by the sugar baby as arranged.
How the relationship will proceed. Having established the very bases of their arrangement, the parties must now spell out how their respective needs can be fulfilled in clearer terms, in specific details. The key questions to ask during the initial exploratory meeting are: What do I expect my sugar daddy to do for me specifically in exchange for my personal services? What do I expect my sugar baby to do for me specifically in exchange for my financial support?
Please note that we introduced these two self-serving questions ahead of the next two other-serving questions simply to stimulate the parties to open up. Of course, the next two questions are: What am I willing to give in exchange for the personal services I get? What am I willing to do in exchange for the financial support I get?
- The conduct of the parties when the deal is on. This element is crucial to our aspiration for perfection. The paper deal is nothing compared to what the parties actually bring into the relationship. The test for success begins after the parties agree, and this test continues and never stops. As any sugar daddy and sugar baby can attest, even as you think your deal is almost perfect, Murphy pops into the scene and sets you scampering to save it. Whatsoever happens, you may not have achieved perfection but what matters is you have lived your role according to the other’s expectations.